Small details add a special touch to your wedding day
A wedding day is filled with symbolic traditions, from varied religious customs to the endless circle reflected in the rings to the types of flowers accentuating the celebration. Even with all the traditional rituals to consider, almost any couple can find ways to give their special day unique touches that reflect their personality and love.
Getting married in a concert hall is how Aspinwall’s Heather and Andrew Davis, who will be celebrating their second anniversary on June 22, made the day reflect their relationship.
Their names were on the marquee outside the Roxian Theater in McKees Rocks.
A curtain was raised as Heather Davis entered the ceremony to take her vows with her husband Andrew Davis taking center stage.
Charger plates made from vinyl records adorned the dinner tables. The lyrics of the songs were incorporated into the invitations and guest seats.
It was a night of harmony, with both a band and a DJ.
“We’ve spent a lot of our eight-year relationship attending concerts and music festivals together,” said Heather Davis. “We knew from the start that a concert hall would be our ideal space. We wanted the evening to reflect us and be a fun memory for our guests.
Music sets the mood for every wedding, and it’s an easy place to put your own twist on the celebration, according to Family Features.
Whether you forgo the traditional bridal walk altogether or are just looking for an arrangement that gives an updated touch to the classic version, let guests know that this is no ordinary wedding by placing the festivities on a soundtrack that makes your real character shine.
Their wedding “was a pretty perfect day,” said Heather Davis, CEO of Day of Pittsburgh, a wedding planning company.
“Anything a couple can do to make their wedding unique will create a special memory for them and their guests,” she said. “And that’s not necessarily a big deal. A little detail can have a big impact.
Laura M. Magone, from Monongahela and founder of The Wedding Cookie Table Community, a Facebook page with nearly 62,000 members, said cookies are a perfect aspect of a wedding to personalize.
Cookies can be created in the colors of the bridal party. She said another personal touch might be to include a story with each cookie, for example, “This cookie is Grandma’s recipe. She did this for all of the family’s special occasions.
Magone recalled a couple who hosted a wood-themed reception and displayed cookies on slices of a tree trunk. She said she even saw cookies representing rival teams on either side of a table.
“Creating a unique cookie table takes planning and imagination,” said Magone. “I love when the bride and groom each choose a favorite cookie and each is labeled so the guests know.”
Atmosphere of the place
Cathy Burnheimer and Jessica Krynicki, both of the Township of Buffalo, co-own the Avenue event space in Sarver, a renovated 150-year-old barn, and its sister site, 2nd Avenue, 2 miles in the township. from Buffalo. If you have children at the reception, the barn location has a room with toys and arts and crafts to keep younger guests occupied.
“When I speak with couples, I try to get them to think outside the box,” Burnheimer said. “I want them to showcase their personality and maybe, instead of having a standard buffet, choose food stations. If the groom loves Mexican, have a taco station; and if the bride likes Italian, offer a station with several pastas and sauces to choose from.
On the menu
Another way to personalize is to serve a menu that shows guests more about your life together.
This could include choosing a dinner menu of foods the couple ate on their first date, said Victoria Deardorff of Peters, who founded Burgh Brides, a multi-faceted wedding planning resource. based in Pittsburgh.
Dining stations will give couples the option of serving classic dishes like steak and chicken, while allowing guests to add their own toppings or sides for a personalized plate, said Samantha Iacia, editor-in-chief of WeddingWire, a wedding planning resource and marketplace, by email. Couples may consider a cocktail-style reception with tapas or appetizers served all night, she said.
The most memorable wedding meals reflect the personalities of the couple, whether it’s serving a favorite dish, cuisine inspired by the theme or location of the wedding, or a cultural dish that represents their family’s history, a declared Iacia.
“Late night snacks are a fun way to add personality and spice to any wedding menu, especially for couples who otherwise prefer to stick to a sit-down meal,” Iacia said. . “Couples can surprise their wedding guests by serving them appetizers and bite-size snacks, such as sliders, fries, pizza or ice cream cookie sandwiches, after dinner and dessert. “
Instead of a huge cake, have a single tier cake and cupcakes with toppings for guests to add, Burnheimer said.
Burnheimer entered the wedding business by creating personalized cakes. She has already made one in which the bleachers were in the form of board games. At the top were the Rock ‘Em Sock’ Em robots, one labeled “Bride” and the other “Groom”. On the tables, the names of the guests were written in Scrabble letters.
“It’s about making the day a memorable one so that when people remember this wedding, they will remember what sets this wedding apart from all the others,” Burnheimer said. “You don’t want what everyone else has. Do what speaks to you.
“This is the day you dreamed of.”
The wedding party is meant to be a collection of the people closest to the bride and groom, helping to keep the day going without a hitch, and getting the other revelers to celebrate the new couple’s start to life together. That being said, there is no reason why this group should be limited to women on his side and men on his, or even be limited to humans – a beloved dog can make an adorable bearer of the lord. ‘ring, after all.
Deardorff said she saw just that – dog loving couples who incorporated their pets into the ceremony. One couple had a wedding cookie table that included specific homemade treats for guests to take home to their dogs.
Photography is a staple of your big day, but think beyond the images you’ll capture throughout the wedding and reception. Photos add a personal touch, regardless of your color scheme or theme.
Include photos of the two of you at different stages of life, as a couple and with your loved ones (maybe even some that you honor in memoriam). You can display them at a table with the guest book, as part of the centerpieces or even on the gift table.
Or take digital stuff and load all your images into a musical slideshow.
Wedding photographers are masters at turning ordinary backdrops into frame-worthy images, Iacia said.
If time permits, she said, some of the best wedding portraits come from places the couple would visit in their daily lives, although it might not seem like a traditional wedding backdrop.
Wedding consultant Hanna Rae Newlin from Delmont, owner of Events by Hanna Rae, said one way to anticipate is to make a thank-you sign and take a photo with the couple or with them and guests and to use it as a thank you card.
Other individual touches also make an event one of a kind.
Newlin said she has seen couples design personalized koozie drinks with their names or monograms for guests to use that night and take home as wedding gifts.
Something more intimate can be a bride carrying a personal item of her grandparents in the bouquet, such as a grandma’s jewelry or a grandfather’s handkerchief.
Custom songlists can represent the kind of music the couple enjoys and also the types of dances they want at the reception.
If the event is in a popular venue or hotel, add lighting or a color scheme that creates a different effect for your wedding so that it doesn’t look like everyone else.
If the couple is a sports fan, their team colors can be incorporated into the decorations.
Give meaning to favors. Forgo more common items like bubbles and chocolate, and instead send a little of yourself home with your guests. Maybe it’s a memento from a place that has special meaning to both of you, or a bicycle-shaped bottle opener to represent how you first met.
Think about the times and things that define you as a couple and do some research online. You will probably be surprised at how quickly the options pile up.
Iacia said that the decor, flower arrangements, menu selections and music are all ways that couples can add their own style and personality while also incorporating basic traditions such as speeches, fun entrees for them. wedding parties, bouquet tossing and parents’ dances.
Weddings are filled with tradition, but that doesn’t mean you can’t add your personal touch to a special event day filled with memories all of your own.
“It’s your wedding and it depends on what you want,” Newlin said. “Now is the time to present something personal for the couple because it is their day.”